I've been a little busy to keep my posts flowing, but The View From Her has been doing an excellent job stimulating dialogue lately. As I was visiting family this weekend I kept getting the probing questions and suggestions about relationships and women in general. In all honestly, I'm just not at a place where that is a priority for me right now. I'm in a very self-centered place with work and other things going on. Being aware of this, I've been deliberately not thinking about the whole relationships and dating thing. Having it pushed back in my face repeatedly, regardless of how good-intentioned, was more of a nuisance than I was ready to accept.
As I caught up on my blog reading, I noticed the theme of physicality and sex pervading the posts. That's cool, I kind of expect it from a writer with as much focus on male/female relationships as Her. But I can't help but wonder if pushing us to consider our views and perspectives on physicality and sex on a continuous basis is healthy. Don't get me wrong, I find the posts and discussion on these subjects as interesting as the next guy. But for someone trying to keep God at the center of my thoughts, and not be continually impacted by sexual desires, it frustrated me a little.
Can't the non-sexual aspects of interpersonal dynamics be as intriguing and frought with pitfalls? Or is sex really 99% of the issue with the relationships even in the Christian community? (That last was rhetorical, I'm not that naive.)
I guess the seed of my post came from asking the question to myself... "She seems so savy and in the know, where's the depth I've so greatly appreciated in keeping my Walk matching my Talk?" Rough I know, but that's just how I roll.
Perhaps I need to remember that even the ones who seem to have it so together still face the same struggles. Or maybe, the reason they seem to have it so together is because they actually face the same struggles head-on. Could it be that addressing this area that is most troublesome in such a persistent fashion is the key to practical success for this area? Maybe she's on to something with this...
Point taken, here's some slack.